Sunday, December 2, 2012
Emotions and Gender
Is one gender inherently more irrational and or emotional than another?
When discussing the sexes it often comes up that one gender is more irrational than the other, and that irrationality usually comes from one gender portraying emotions more openly than the other. Typically this more irrational gender is women. However, is it fair to say that women are inherently more irrational than men or any other gender? It is known that women are more likely to cry when they are upset or if they are angry. This emotional reaction may be due to brain chemistry or how the emotion is handled. However, the fact that crying or showing emotions is something women are known to do, or that it is known as a feminine trait, is something constructed by societal gender roles. In this society, it is okay if women cry; however, if men show emotions or cry openly they are not seen as emotional - they are seen as effeminate. Whether the emotional reaction has to do with their brain chemistry or not is often left out or not regarded. This theory is skewed because it is very obvious that emotions and gender are not linked in the sense that one controls the other.
So is one gender more irrational or emotional than the other? Perhaps the reasons behind the emotions are due to the different combinations of brain chemistry. However, much of the belief regarding irrationality and emotions is constructed by society as a way to demand compliance with gender roles. I do not believe that one gender is more irrational or emotional than the other - I believe that is a societal perception of the genders.
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I agree with you that society defines our relationship to our emotions by our gender. It is sad that when a man is public or willing to share his feelings, we have to call him sensitive rather than saying he is emotionally healthy or aware of his feelings. It is even more so upsetting given the personal difficulties we all face at times, that men try to suppress and hide their feelings to meet societal expectations. Hiding and ignoring your emotions usually complicates and exacerbates the situation, yet many men continue to do so in order to act like "one of the guys"
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